How to Love a Black Woman Give-and-Get-the Very Best in Your Relationship
by Elmore, Dr. RonnFormat: Paperback
Pub. Date: 1999-08-01
Publisher(s): Grand Central Publishing
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Summary
In his second book, Dr. Ronn Elmore empowers men to relate honestly to women by achieving true intimacy and inspires women to expect a higher level of loving from their men. This book offers advice about women, from women, and frees men to be truly loving partners. It shows men how to contribute to a mutually satisfying relationship without compromising themselves.
Table of Contents
| Introduction | p. 1 |
| The Straight Facts | p. 9 |
| Your Phenomenal Woman: Who She Really Is and Isn't | p. 11 |
| Like AM and FM | p. 21 |
| This Is How We Do It | p. 29 |
| The Five Most Common Love Substitutes | p. 37 |
| Charmers | p. 37 |
| Improvers | p. 44 |
| Blamers | p. 50 |
| Givers | p. 57 |
| Rulers | p. 65 |
| Slow Down ... Men at Work! | p. 73 |
| The Policies and Procedures and You | p. 77 |
| How to Love a Black Woman | p. 79 |
| Reality-Check Your Expectations of Her | p. 81 |
| Give Her Your Love in Her Language | p. 83 |
| Expect to Have to Earn Her Trust | p. 86 |
| Be Responsive to Her Without Taking Responsibility for Her | p. 88 |
| Don't Start What You Won't Continue | p. 91 |
| Accept Her for Who She Is Now (Not Who You Think You Can Make Her Into) | p. 93 |
| Study Other Men | p. 95 |
| Don't Require That Your Every Move Be Applauded | p. 98 |
| Tell Her Exactly What Your Commitment Means | p. 100 |
| Listen to Her Problems Without Rushing to Solve Them | p. 102 |
| Refer to All Black Women with Respect | p. 104 |
| Take the Blame (But Only When It's Yours) | p. 106 |
| Never Compare Her | p. 109 |
| Show Her Off | p. 111 |
| Give Her the Space to Disappoint You | p. 113 |
| Invest in the Things That Nourish Her | p. 115 |
| Lighten Up | p. 118 |
| Get Serious | p. 120 |
| Say "I Don't Know" When You Don't | p. 122 |
| Tell Her What You Assume She Already Knows | p. 125 |
| Read Between the Lines | p. 127 |
| Avoid Analyzing Her to Her | p. 130 |
| Call Her by Name | p. 132 |
| Touch Her | p. 134 |
| Do Your Best, Then Be Yourself | p. 136 |
| Own Up to and Express Your Fears | p. 139 |
| Let Her Know When You're Headed Underground | p. 142 |
| Tolerate Her Rambling | p. 144 |
| Never Run from Her Tears | p. 146 |
| Remind Her Daily of Why You Love Her | p. 148 |
| Be Willing to Sacrifice Your Schedule for Her | p. 151 |
| Follow Her Lead Sometimes | p. 153 |
| Initiate Physical Affection That Doesn't Always Lead to Sex | p. 156 |
| Share Your Insides with Her | p. 158 |
| Expect to Love Her Out of Both Desire and Duty | p. 160 |
| Protect Her | p. 163 |
| Be Conservative in the Promises You Make | p. 165 |
| Never Beg | p. 167 |
| Rock the Boat When Necessary | p. 169 |
| Monitor Your Complaint Output | p. 171 |
| Adjust Your Tone of Voice | p. 173 |
| Share Her Load | p. 175 |
| Let Her Help You | p. 177 |
| Resist Procrastination | p. 180 |
| Be Patient | p. 182 |
| Keep Your Fascination with Passing Women to Yourself | p. 185 |
| Hold Her Even When You Don't Have To | p. 187 |
| Surprise Her | p. 189 |
| Let Her Romance You | p. 191 |
| Tell the Truth | p. 193 |
| Explain | p. 196 |
| Keep Her Secrets | p. 198 |
| Resist the Urge to Punish Her | p. 201 |
| Season Your Criticism with Praise | p. 203 |
| Don't Cheat on Her | p. 205 |
| Show Your Love by How You Handle Your Money | p. 208 |
| Become and Remain Clean and Sober | p. 211 |
| Change Your Running Crowd | p. 213 |
| Apologize with Words | p. 215 |
| Resist the Sugar Daddy in You | p. 217 |
| Never Play with the Word "Marriage" | p. 219 |
| Stop Comparing Paychecks | p. 222 |
| Take Good Care of Your Kids | p. 224 |
| Remember the Big Events | p. 226 |
| Become Her Best Mirror | p. 228 |
| Don't Let Pride Rob You of the Help You Need | p. 230 |
| Love Her in Ways You Want Your Son to Imitate | p. 233 |
| Don't Let Your Love Life Become Your Whole Life | p. 235 |
| Stay | p. 238 |
| Keep on Loving Her Even if You Don't Always "Get It" | p. 241 |
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